September 1st and Resolutions
As originally appeared in The Jerusalem Post on August 29, 2025.
What makes a child gifted and talented may not always be good grades in school, but a different way of looking at the world and learning. –Sen. Chuck Grassley
I’ll be the first to admit that I lose sight of the fact that kids are kids and that they should act like kids. I try and hold them to a higher standard, and it’s not until my dear wife reminds me that maybe I should cut them some slack. So now we approach September the 1st, which means back to school.
For me it’s like baseball’s opening day. Hope springs eternal. This is the year that our kids will become model students, take an interest in their studies and show intellectual curiosity. I hope that this back-to-school season will be different. They will get to school on time, do their homework without being asked more times than they are asked to clean their rooms, and that they will put down their assorted electronic devices in their quest for academic excellence. Why do I hope? Because I held short talks with some of them and we spoke how this year will be different. That they are moving up into the big leagues now and that school will be harder. I was very happy when they told me that they are going to try harder and understand their new situation and are ready to meet the challenge!
While I am proud of their newfound maturity, I also am giving it about a week before I hear, “Abba can you drive me to school, I missed the bus”, or they wake up late or homework is delayed because “it’s really only due in a week.” Then I started thinking. Kids are no different than adults are, and as such why should I have raised expectations for them. We are fast approaching Rosh Hashana and many of us will make resolutions to improve ourselves in a certain way over the upcoming year. Funny isn’t it, that just like our children, we will be lucky to last a week or two before most of us revert to the way we have been acting all these years. What does this mean? That changing behavior is no easy task. We are creatures of habit, and trying to change is like going against nature.
When it comes to our money, the situation is no different. How many people say that they are going to start budgeting and save on a disciplined, ongoing basis? How many actually succeed? Not so many. But don’t fret. I like to view changing financial habits as two steps forward and one step back. By starting the process, a certain awareness is created, and that awareness is vital. It may be that for a month or two you steadfastly are able to stick to a budget, but in month three, you are hit with a few unexpected expenses which cause you to blow through your budget. The fact that you achieved some small successes initially stay with you and help you get back on track in month four.
The same goes for investing. Too often, I see investors make the cardinal sin of panic selling after a market drop, instead of staying the course. Earlier this week, I was sitting with a client and reviewing their account. He was aware that 2008-9, 2018 and 2022 were bad years, and was actually happy that he had stayed on course and made large amounts of money over the last 20 years. He told me, “That’s investing. I’ve had a good run over many years, most of the time was good, occasionally we had a lousy year. Nu. It happens. But you see, we have way more than made up the loss of any of those bad years.” How correct he was, and may I add how surprised and thrilled I was to hear him say that!
Investors really need to understand that hitting the panic button is a surefire way not to grow wealth. It’s certainly no fun to lose money, but if you keep a long-term perspective, you understand that markets go up and they can also drop. Always remember that time is your ally, and that over the long term, stock market investing has shown to be a very powerful approach to wealth building.
Whether it’s improving academically, trying to perfect character traits or try to have a secure financial future, don’t get frustrated if you hit some bumps in the road. Remember: two steps forward, one step back.
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Aaron Katsman is the author of Retirement GPS: How to Navigate Your Way to A Secure Financial Future with Global Investing (McGraw-Hill), and is a licensed financial professional both in the United States and Israel, and helps people who open investment accounts in the United States. Securities are offered through Portfolio Resources Group, Inc. (www.prginc.net). Member FINRA, SIPC, MSRB, SIFMA, FSI. For more information, call (02) 624-0995 visit www.aaronkatsman.com or email aaron@lighthousecapital.co.il.
